What is the proper way to approach a Guru or visit a holy place, based on the account in Shirdi?

Chapter 35 provides guidance on the proper etiquette when approaching a spiritual master. The text explicitly states, 'It is not good to go empty-handed to the door of God, a priest, or a Guru.' This principle was put into practice by the devotee Kaka, who, before going for Baba's darshan, 'bought two seers (units) of grapes on the way' as an offering. This act signifies respect, humility, and the understanding that one should approach with a spirit of giving, not just taking. The value of the offering is secondary to the intention behind it. This simple offering of grapes became the very instrument through which Baba performed a miracle for Boss Dharamsee. Therefore, according to the events in Chapter 35, approaching a Guru with a humble offering and a heart free of ego is the recommended conduct.